Resources – Relationships

The Will to Change (bell hooks)

Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (John Gottman)*

Eight Dates (John Gottman & Julie Schwartz Gottman)*

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find— and Keep—Love (Amir Levine & Rachel Heller)*

Attachment and the Defence Against Intimacy: Understanding and Working with Avoidant Attachment, Self-Hatred, and Shame (Linda Cundy)

Attachments: Why You Love, Feel, and Act the Way You Do (Timothy Clinton)

Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most (Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Shiela Heen)*

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (Esther Perel)*

Schopenhauer’s Porcupines: Intimacy and Its Dilemmas: Five Stories of Psychotherapy (Debra Anna Leupnitz)

People Tools for Love and Relationships: The Journey from Me to Us (Alan C. Fox)*

The Reflective Workbook for Partners of Transgender People: Your Transition as Your Partner Transitions (D. M. Maynard)

all about love (bell hooks)*

The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships (Harriet Lerner, PhD)*

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love (Dr. Sue Johnson)*

Texts marked with an * are available at Lincoln City Libraries.